What is the difference between ashamed and embarrassed?

Ashamed is stronger and usually means you think you did something wrong. Embarrassed is often about awkwardness or social discomfort.

Can I say ashamed of someone?

Yes, but it usually means you feel bad about their bad actions or behavior. For example: “I am ashamed of what he did.”

Is ashamed a formal word?

It is common in both speech and writing. In serious situations, it can sound strong and emotional.

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ashamed

/əˈʃeɪmd/

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adjective

Feeling bad because you think you did something wrong, silly, or embarrassing. It can also mean feeling uncomfortable about a part of yourself or your situation.

She felt ashamed after lying to her mother.
He was ashamed of his behavior at work.
Don't be ashamed to ask for help.

Adinary Nuance

Ashamed is stronger and more personal than embarrassed. You often feel ashamed when you think you have done something morally wrong, not just awkward. It is also stronger than sorry, which can mean simple regret without deep shame. In formal writing, ashamed can sound serious and emotional.

In other languages

Vietnamese: xấu hổ
Spanish: avergonzado
Chinese: 羞愧的
Japanese: 恥ずかしい
Korean: 부끄러운

Etymology

Ashamed comes from Old English words meaning “made to feel shame.” It has been used in English since before the 12th century.

Common phrases

ashamed ofashamed to sayfeel ashamedbe ashamed of yourself

Synonyms

embarrassed guilty humiliated remorseful

Related words

shame guilt embarrassment regret

Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between ashamed and embarrassed?: Ashamed is stronger and usually means you think you did something wrong. Embarrassed is often about awkwardness or social discomfort.
Can I say ashamed of someone?: Yes, but it usually means you feel bad about their bad actions or behavior. For example: “I am ashamed of what he did.”
Is ashamed a formal word?: It is common in both speech and writing. In serious situations, it can sound strong and emotional.