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What's the word for the feeling of realizing every passerby has a full complex life of thei?
The word you're looking for
Sonder is the feeling that every person you see has a full, rich life of their own. It fits your concept very well, even though it is not a common everyday word.
Other words that fit
Use this if you want to stress the sudden realisation, not the idea itself.
Use this for a more general, simple word, but it is less specific.
Use this when you mean feeling other people's lives and emotions more deeply.
Why this word
Sonder is a coined word, not a standard dictionary word, but many people use it for this exact idea. It describes the quiet shock of realising that strangers are as complex as you are. In casual speech, people may not know it, so you may need to explain it. If you want a more common phrase, try “the realisation that everyone has their own inner life.”
In context
- I felt sonder while watching people on the train.
- That moment gave me a deep sense of sonder.
- Sonder can make the world feel both larger and smaller.
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Frequently asked questions
- Is sonder a real English word?
- It is widely used, but it is not a traditional dictionary word.
- Can I use sonder in formal writing?
- Only if your reader will understand it, or if you define it first.
- What is a more common phrase for sonder?
- You can say “the realisation that everyone has their own life.”